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Kat Highsmith's avatar

First, there's no such thing as "trans" women or "trans" anything because there's no such thing as "trans."

You didn't "transition" because nobody does. You didn't "detransition" because "transition" never happened in the first place. A male on estrogen, a male who wears dresses, a degenerate male who likes wearing makeup and wigs--these are all still males. Nothing changes one's sex. It's merely a costume.

Lastly, this is a lot of verbiage and talking in circles for a very simple problem--too many males with too much time on their hands. People tend to speak about this as though males are very complicated with complex psychological problems.

That is not what is happening here. I don't care about what some porn addict thinks about "integrating" femininity into his personality. None of this exists.

Stop watching pornography, get off your rear end, do physical labor and work out. That is the core of the problem here. Too many males sitting around thinking their irrational perversions are some type of complicated psychological problem. They're not.

You're just nasty. You need to be distracted and put to work, just like a child needs to be distracted.

Stop with the navel gazing. It's pathetic.

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Ray Alex Williams's avatar

You might think your "analysis" of autogynephilia is insightful or deep or truthful but your comment is indicative of the fact that you have little to no actual understanding of the nature of the phenomenon and, accordingly, your life "advice" is completely useless.

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Kat Highsmith's avatar

There’s nothing to analyze. This isn’t complicated, interesting, or important.

These men are nasty and need to do it in private. If they want to wear women’s clothing, they have to do it at home.

There’s nothing else to say beyond that. Men are not complicated.

This is stupid male ego in its purest, most distilled form. Do not frame honest criticism of male stupidity and nastiness as a lack of understanding. That’s what trannies and doctors looking to make money off of them do.

There's nothing to understand here.

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Ray Alex Williams's avatar

"This isn’t complicated, interesting, or important."

Interesting enough for you to read my entire essay and spend several minutes typing out multiple comments.

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Kat Highsmith's avatar

You aren't understanding what I'm saying.

Keeping male rapists out of women's prisons, sports, and spaces is important. Preventing the sterilization and mutilation of children is important. Stopping a medical fraud is important.

Also, the language is important. You didn't transition or detransition because none of that is real. I won't use these ridiculous words, and the English language won't be upended to cater to this nonsense.

But male stupidity, in and of itself, is not complicated, interesting, or important. "Integrating femininity" or dealing with nasty, perverted idiot males and trying to teach them to be normal is not important. They need to be put to work so they don't sit around navel gazing about this bullshit.

That's what I'm responding to.

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Ray Alex Williams's avatar

You claim to care about keeping AGPs from causing social trouble but simultaneously claim it's not important to understand the psychological nature of AGP. If you honestly think "just put your head down and work" is a psychologically plausible strategy or tactic for getting AGPs to behave better or magically cure their condition you are woefully ignorant because AGPs in masculine careers "putting in the work" are exactly those who are most likely to create trans widows. Work will not solve this. Things are way more complicated than you are suggesting, although I am not opposed to the spirit of your suggestion, which has a kernel of truth.

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Kat Highsmith's avatar

No.

Things are not more complicated because men are not complicated.

They have too much time on their hands and need physical labor to tire them out. Nothing more is needed.

LOL "kernel of truth" I'm "woefully ignorant" but I'm also essentially correct. This is why men are ridiculous. You shouldn't even be online. A lot of this is just porn sickness too--too much time online, navel gazing, not enough manual labor.

You should be out working.

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Ray Alex Williams's avatar

"You didn't transition or detransition because none of that is real."

So taking hormones wasn't real?

Legally changing my name wasn't real?

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Kat Highsmith's avatar

A male on estrogen is still male. You didn't change your sex and you didn't "transition" to anything special. You were a male on estrogen. Then you stopped taking estrogen. You were the same person the whole time--a male.

A male who changes his name is still male. It changed nothing about your body, DNA, or biology. Bruce Jenner got his name changed on his passport, drivers' license, and birth certificate. He's still a man, that is an adult human male, and always will be.

If you had gotten surgery on your male genitalia and had it removed, you'd still be male. It doesn't change your biology and DNA. Males who have had injuries from being blown up or injured in war have lost their genitalia. They were still men because it didn't change their DNA.

None of this means anything. If all legal records were burned, males are still male. If all written records disappeared, males are still male. If all humans disappeared, male and female would still exist in mammals.

You never "transitioned." You were a male who was allowed to chase a lie because we live in a society that caters to male stupidity and perversion, as supported by a corrupt medical industry looking to make money off of you. Nothing more.

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Ray Alex Williams's avatar

"That’s what trannies do"

I thought there's no such thing as "trans"?

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Kat Highsmith's avatar

Yes, there's no such thing as "trans" in that there is no special category for people who refuse to accept the reality of their sexed body. There's no such thing as a "trans" woman or "trans" man. None of it is real. That's what the term "trans" specifically refers to.

Sometimes I use "tranny" on purpose as an insult to refer to men who wear women's clothes, get plastic surgery, and try to pass (and almost never do). That's on purpose, to provoke and highlight that I will not avoid language to tiptoe around this ridiculous subject.

Sometimes I say "transvestite" (man in women's clothes) or sometimes just autogynephile. It depends on what the necessity is at the time.

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Ray Alex Williams's avatar

"there's no such thing as "trans" in that there is no special category for people who refuse to accept the reality of their sexed body."

This is contradictory because you just defined the very category you say doesn't exist: the subgroup of people who refuse to accept the reality of their sexed body.

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Kat Highsmith's avatar

No, it's not contradictory. Your reading comprehension skills are atrocious.

The people I'm referring to are men. They're not a special category of human that has "transitioned." It's an intentional insult to men who just wear dresses. They're still men. They're not "trans" women and they didn't "transition."

I would call Bruce Jenner a tranny in that he thinks because he wears makeup and women's clothing that he's special and became a special type of woman. He's not, and that's an insult aimed at him. He's still a man. They go crazy when you go out of the way to insult with what they claim is a slur. Delusional men exist. The word "tranny" references that.

Now I see why you trooned out in the first place. You're dumb. Go reread what I wrote. I use it an as insult to make them mad, not because they're a special category of a man who became a type of woman. There's no such thing as that.

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OceanRat's avatar

Thoughtful piece, thanks. Of course everyone navigates their own story but i feel it's incredibly useful to have narratives that arent the basic stick-of-rock, born in the wrong body story which often seems to be the only one thats socially accepted. A good read.

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